To explain a few things

[The chick at work]

Hi, this is “the chick from work that J fancies”. In response to your quote from 13th Sep…..

“Today has been interesting so far. The girl that I fancy at work has started chatting to me again, she wants to do lunch in the next couple of days. I didn't bother calling E in the end. So I hope I can be cool and hopefully something can develop with this one”.

Ok on what planet does a girl telling you has a boyfriend and lives with him and has been with him for 3 years translate into bloke language as hey I’m interested lets go on a date!! Some advice for the male species, when a girl you’re hitting on tells you she has a boyfriend she lives with (and does not make any complaints about her relationship or give you any indication she is gonna be disloyal to her bf and maybe think about anything developing with you), she expects you to either disappear and go hit on someone else, or if you like her as a mate and can have a laugh - forget ANY notion of anything EVER developing you carry on chatting.

Perhaps that will be why the going out to lunch (AS A MATE) never materialised – think about it oh cyber slave one.

Then she goes to Sydney for a couple of weeks, and when she comes back she gets a mail from you yesterday saying how was her hols, meanwhile on your website is this from the 15th Sep -
“And today I thought I'd have a good day at work cos that chick that I fancy was meant to go to lunch with me today but once again can't go cos she has soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much fucking work. YOU'RE TALKING OUT OF YOUR A-HOLE DARLING! So now she wants to do it tomorrow. Ah whatever, I dunno if I can be fucked. I'm not gonna bother reminding her tomorrow now, it's up to her.”
I don’t know how I wanted to meet up the next day seeing as I was flying out the following day it wouldn’t really have been possible (plus I don’t believe we ever set a particular day), and as for talking out for my a-hole “DARLING” maybe you thought too much of the whole idle chit chat thing and should be tasting that mmm mmmm humble pie right.

So heres a thought for the day to ponder, should I really give “the chick that I fancy at work” my new internet site to take a look at and then write things such as YOU'RE TALKING OUT OF YOUR A-HOLE DARLING when I was clearly never interested in anything “developing” in the first place – sooooooooo not attractive. Blokes learn from this – when a girl chats to you it does NOT mean you are anywhere near in there with her, keep the fantasies in the bedroom huh!

[J Tank]

Interesting that you don't know much about yourself Chick from work. See, apparently you DON'T have a boyfriend, just live in a house, shared by your ex and a bunch of others.

You went to Sydney? REALLY?? Wow, I thought you were somewhere else, but hey maybe you were lying.

Well, I'm not really too bothered about what you have to say because it does seem that you are talking out of your A-hole now. Ah well, it seems you do still want to go to lunch with me as you've just asked me about it, so why the hostility on here? Are you trying to act bad?

Oh dear you faker, at least be who you really are and stop pretending to be someone else.

[J Tank]

Well this is cleared up now. Turns out it was a case of mistaken identity. No harm done.
;D

[greenthumb]

Ooops! Pays to do bit of research BEFORE you go on a rampage "the chick from work that J fancies" !! J likes to spread the love around, and don't get me wrong here, he probably DOES fancy you, along with another 20 sexy ladies that work there!

It was an innocent mistake and an easy one to make, and it made me laugh......A lot! I could almost sense the warm, triumphant feeling you had when you wrote it disappear as the realization hit that it was not about you, ouch!

Good post though, his balls would have been shriveling as he read it!

Luv K

[rjnathan]

I thought it was some sort of lesbian rights campaigner, so I was wrong too!